First of all, my deepest sympathies to you for the loss of someone you loved. I have experienced it as well, and I do not wish it on my worst enemy. For whatever reason, I just heard “I Send a Message” on the radio, and I hadn't heard it for years! My favourite INXS tune of all time! It just made me think back to a lot of things that happened in those years...some good, some bad, just memories. An incredible talent, to say the least. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Once again, my most sincere condolences...and in reference to the aforementioned song...I send a message too! Andrew.